IT appears the wiring goes through connector EE01 in the drivers side front corner. still looking
THe switch wires:
Pink pin 27 EE01 [light for switch]
Blue/Black pin 26 EE01 [ground this, shuts up VESS]
Ground Black Pin 31
Switched power red Pin 4
Unswitched power red/orange pin 3
reverse light relay is in the junction box right near EE01
It appears EE21 pin 36 [orange]is pulled low by the canbus to turn on the back up light relay, and it is in that same box
So in theory, if you tied EE21 Pin 36 to EE01 pin 26, it 'should' shut the back up alarm off
EM11 pin 45 [blue/black] is the other end of EE01 pin 27 where it is supposed to enter the cabin, for the switch we don't have
The VSS section in the shop manual [rather than the electrical manual] shows no connection on pins 3 and 7 at the VESS unit, meaning no wiring out to it for the switch.
It also shows 'flash memory' internal to the VESS unit, meaning in theory the sounds are stored there, and some clever hacker could change them to whatever they wanted
If you go back to post 77, when Ms Ko unplugs the unit, you can clearly see that the blue and pink wires are in the harness, so they must go as far as EE01